
How to Support Your Child Through the IB Diploma
Help your child thrive during the IB Diploma journey. Get practical, expert advice on managing pressure, deadlines, and time management from a recent IB graduate.
Supporting Your IB Child: A Guide for Parents
The IB Diploma is known for its progressive difficulty, with pressure building throughout the two-year programme. As a recent IB graduate, I understand the challenges firsthand. This guide offers practical advice for parents on how to support their child through the demanding IB journey.
Expectations on the IB
Perhaps obvious, but ever-more important to state nonetheless. It’s key that, as an IB parent, you aren’t heaping extra pressure on top of the already overflowing pile.
For many, the IB feels more like a plate-spinning exercise rather than a course. There are so many assignments to complete, some of which contribute towards final marks, all the while still learning content and ensuring CAS is on track. As we all know, it’s a lot – and each person deals with that differently.
Allowing IB students space to get on with it is absolutely key. Don’t be too hard if there’s one assignment handed in late, or a target grade isn’t quite reached. Progress on the IB most definitely isn’t always linear, so allow generous room for mistakes.
To learn more, take a look at this BBC bitesize article.
Know when to step in
Only you know your child so well, and so you’re likely able to read the signs. There’s no right answer or objective truth here.
In my personal experience, I much preferred my parents allowing me as much breathing space as possible – even when I was struggling. My method was to ask teachers and friends before concerning my parents, which I communicated to them as clearly as possible.
Be a "Second Pair of Eyes"
It’s always a sensible idea to get a hold of your child’s key deadlines. With so many tasks due in a short space of time, having a parent there as a ‘second pair of eyes’ could be useful for spotting upcoming deadlines.
Create a Wall Planner
Perhaps you could even create a wall planner. Fill it in with deadlines as they’re released, and place it somewhere where neither you nor your child can forget about it.
Stepping in
Unless you’re active in a field which overlaps with IB subject matter, it’s fairly unlikely you can properly help with the actual work. Being collaborative, fair and communicative (in the way I outlined above) is a fantastic start nonetheless.
It’s certainly possible, though, to play an active role in the learning process, assuming you can take an interest in the subject matter. Ask your child if they’d like to discuss a topic with you, or even teach it to you.
The perfect way to see if you’ve mastered a topic is to see if you’re able to teach it to somebody else.
Beyond this, helping with deadlines and time management, there isn’t much that IB parents can do to be directly involved with their child’s IB process. Of course, each student and household has individual circumstances which might suit more, or in my case less, involvement.

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The IB Diploma is incredibly demanding, and the best support often comes from understanding the pressure your child is under. Avoid adding extra stress, allow them space to manage their workload, and be reassuring that progress isn't always linear. Your emotional support and understanding are invaluable during this challenging period.
IB students often feel like they're "plate-spinning" due to the sheer volume of assignments, Internal Assessments (IAs), Extended Essay (EE), Theory of Knowledge (TOK), CAS requirements, and subject content. This constant juggling act can lead to significant stress and the feeling of being overwhelmed.
You can act as a valuable "second pair of eyes" by helping to track key deadlines. Creating a shared wall planner for assignments, IAs, and exams can be very effective. The goal is to support their organisation without taking over their responsibilities, fostering independence and good habits.
Unless you have direct expertise in a specific IB subject, it's often more beneficial to encourage your child to teach you a topic. This helps them solidify their understanding. For direct subject support, especially with complex topics or assignments, seeking expert IB tutoring can provide targeted and effective help.
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